Category Archives: Game

Approach anxiety

What is approach anxiety? it’s quite simple, it’s the fear of cold approaching a woman. There are a ton of information in the manosphere about approach anxiety, from what causes approach anxiety? how to eliminate approach anxiety? and to why we men fear with every fiber of our being the act of approaching a beautiful woman that arouses us.

I have read quite a great deal on this topic, and to no avail, I still have a great deal of trouble approaching women. I might have a sudden burst of courage that will give me the opportunity to approach a woman, but it never lasts. It’s funny, most of the time I find that alcohol does not work and rather makes me antisocial.

I have to internalize and accept the fact that rejection happens to everyone. I need to embrace it, every time I feel or think that I should not approach, guess what, I must approach. I am honestly tired of where I am with women, I need to approach, approach and approach again. It’ll take time, it’ll take hard work, but in one year I’ll be surprised at how far I have come.

From now on I will be following a new guide to approaching women, a guide to eliminate my approach anxiety.

  •  By using my sexual energy as a force to approach women.

How do I harness my sexual energy?

  1. Eliminate masturbation
  2. Start eating healthy foods, limit bad fats. Foods like avocado’s, red grapes, tuna, pomegranate, large amount of proteins(milks, eggs and chicken), garlic, honey and cabbage
  3. No alcohol
  4. Plenty of sleep
  5. Exercise

By following this 5 steps, I will greatly increase my testosterone, which in turn will increase my sexual energy

  •  Following the  approaching ladder – start small, by asking what the time is? generally chat with people around you?
  • Follow the “3 second rule”. When you see a girl that arouses you, approach, do not wait more than three seconds, because you’ll let the fear creep in and you will second guess yourself
  • Repetition: approach, approach, approach and approach again. Approach anxiety decreases with repetition

“I will try 100 times to get up and if I fail 100 times, if I fail and I give up, do you think I am ever going to get up. No!”


Make a change

This summer has quickly come and is almost gone. I feel like there is still so much I can do to improve myself. For the past couple of weeks I have been greatly disappointed at my level of progress in my school, as well as game. So I have decided to make a change, it’s never too late. I will be following “The Roosh program”,  courtesy of For the next couple of weeks I will document my experiences. This program will help me become the man i need to be, a man that can attract women. I will also completely cut out masturbation for the next 90 days.

University Networking

I will discuss thoughts on networking in a university setting, some of my information can be attributed to Thomas The Rhymer from the RVF  and Christian Mcqueen

– Know everyone in your class on a first name basis. This will require you pitching up early to classes and leaving late, so that you can randomly talk to people. After a long time, you will know most of the people. This is also a good way of getting other people’s notes, past year exam papers, tips for upcoming tests, etc.

– join the clubs with interest in your field. Ex: Politics then Poli Sci. Talk to everyone. Become the man on campus everyone knows

– Join your alumni network. If you dress up in a suit and don’t talk like a moron, people won’t mind that you’re an undergrad.

– Dress well for class.  Always dress decently, because you never know who you’re going to meet. Plus, rocking up in a suit on campus guarantees a lot of eye-fucking from the girls,

– Try and go off on tangents on the subjects you are learning. If you’re studying philosophy but want to learn more about economics, see if you can make an appointment with someone at the economics faculty for a short informational interview. Basically, get to know the junior lecturers from other departments that you are not involved.

– Get to know your own lecturers. Bother them with questions and positive comments about their work, ask stupid questions even if you know the work well. The fact that you know the work is not important, but if you can pretend to not understand something you can use that as a prop to approach lecturers, and then they feel gratified when you act as if you suddenly understand. It makes them feel good, and then you’re on good terms with them. I’ve met several people who’ve found jobs through lecturers that they were on good terms with.

– Party with the right people. Partying together creates a bond. You will probably meet a lot of your business associates while partying

– Find girls who’s dads are moguls etc. game them. Get them wrapped up. A daughter with the right dad can get you ahead quickly

Finally networking involves : 1) Meeting new people 2) Meeting those people again 3) Getting introduced to another person